In need of impartial advice?

oh boooyyyy. ah you should tell him because if he really loves you hes going to give you a 2nd chance, but obviously is gonna need time and is going to leave you for a while. but if you dont tell him, maybe one day he founds out and then you are fuckd. so ill say dont tell him because if you tKE THE RISK TO TELL HIM THINKING HES going to be okay, no not gonna happen, cuz im a guy and if you do that to me, i will, idk what i would do, but ill not stay with you. so dont tell him